Thursday, April 22, 2010

Get Your Ex Back In 1 Hour

Get Your Ex Back In 1 Hour

It's easy to get obsessed with the idea of getting back with your ex after a painful breakup, it doesn't matter if it was you or them that decided to end things, it's still tough to put all the 'what if's' out of your mind. Most people would do just about anything to be out of pain and get their ex back. Many people want a quick fix and want to know how to get your ex back in 1 hour. The truth is that it's highly unlikely that you'll be able to get your ex back so quickly. What is very possible is that you can get your ex back if you're willing to invest some time and effort first.

For the most part, it really doesn't matter why the two of you broke up, there are some simple steps that have helped thousands reunite with their exes, and if you're willing to follow them, they can help you too. Just make sure that you have good intentions before you start down this path. It's not worth it to go to all the work to get back with your ex if the only reason you want them back is because they've started dating and you're jealous.

Here are the steps you should follow if you really want to have your ex back in your arms:

1. The first thing you have to do is to figure out what went wrong the first time and what part you played in the drama. Once you've established the mistakes you've made you have to ask yourself if you will be willing to put in some time to make changes so that you don't do the same things the next time around. If you're not 100% ready to put in some effort and address these issues you may as well forget it. Even if you and your ex do get back together you're just going to have the same problems again.

2. Spend some time taking care of you. A breakup can cause an enormous amount of stress on your body, take some time to concentrate on getting back in shape. Hit the gym 3 - 5 times a week. Doing this will help you out by alleviating some of the stress you've been feeling and it will also help you feel more in control and better about yourself in general. It's also a good way to give yourself something other than your ex to concentrate on.

3. Take a trip. Make a point of going somewhere and doing something that you've never done but always wanted to. This again, will help you clear your head, and live your life to the fullest instead of moping around and feeling sorry for yourself. Another benefit is that your ex will likely hear about the trip and realize that you're an interesting person who does interesting things which may be enough to have them calling you! Even if they don't call, you'll have a great way to grow as a person and have some fun experiences ( and get your ex off your mind for at least a little while).

4. All of these steps have been building up to the big 'reveal', the time when you casually contact your ex and see if they'd like to get together and catch up. The important thing here is to remember that this has to be a casual easy going invitation. You cannot make it sound like the two of you are sitting down for some ultra serious 'let's get back together' talk. If you do, more than likely your ex will say no thanks.

If you keep this step casual and friendly you will be able to spend time with your ex and that will allow them to see the ways you've grown. If you are warm and polite without being clingy and desperate, your ex will begin to remember what they've been missing, and while you might not be able to get your ex back in 1 hour, if you follow these steps they might just be calling you to get back together.

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