Tuesday, March 29, 2011

What To Do If You Miss Your Ex

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Going through a break up is never easy. In fact, it almost always sucks (to be blunt). Still, in a way you are just relieved to be done with it. Or so you thought. Then as some time passes, you start to realize that you still miss your ex. Oh no! What are you going to do? This isn't supposed to happen, is it? The two of you are broken up, and that's that. Let's take a deeper look at the issue, and you will see that things may not be quite as bad as they seem right now.

So, you miss your ex, but is that a bad thing? That really is the question, and getting to the bottom of it will determine how well you deal with your feelings for your ex.

The first thing you need to figure out is whether you really miss your ex or not. Remember, your emotions are going to be running high, and your thinking won't always be clear after a break up. You may think you miss your ex, but the reality is that you may miss having somebody to hang out with. Or maybe you are afraid you will never find love again. Neither of those things are really about your ex, they are about you, and that's okay. The main thing is that you get to the root of what your true feelings are.

Assuming you really do miss your ex, you have a decision to make: should you get over them, or try to get back with your ex? You may have a gut reaction to that question, but you don't want to act on it too quickly. There is no wrong answer here, but you do need to think about it carefully.

If you choose to get on with your life, then you will need to work through your emotions. Yes, you miss your ex, but now it's time to move on. It won't be easy, but you need to do it if you ever want to be happy again. If you can't seem to do it on your own, then talk to a friend, member of the clergy, or a counselor. Each of them can help in their own way, and you'll be glad once it's done.

On the other hand, you may decide that you want to try to get your ex back. This brings on a whole new set of challenges, but it can be done. Luckily, there has been a lot of information written about how to do this. So, rather than going off on a whole different tangent, suffice it to say that you can easily find out how to get your ex back if that's what you have decided to do.

Just because you miss your ex, doesn't mean you have to live with that feeling. Though it may not seem possible to you now, you can get through this. You have a few options, but the key is to take action. It will take some effort, but it will be worth it once you're happy again.

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Sunday, March 13, 2011

Relationship Rescue Techniques

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Simple Relationship Rescue Techniques

Wouldn't it be great if all relationships were happy all of the time? Maybe, but we all live in the real world, and that means we often face real problems. Sure, they may start off really well, and the two of you are so in love that it's amazing, but then things start to change. The novelty starts to wear off, and before you know it you're looking for relationship rescue methods in the hopes of staying together. If any of this sounds familiar, then you are not alone. The good news is that there are plenty of things you can do, as you will see.

The most important thing for you to realize is that your relationship is worth rescuing. If you disagree with this, then you need to find out why. What other things are going on? Why aren't you so sure about making things better? If there is something holding you back, you will need to fix that first before you move on to working things out. From here on out we will talk as though you truly want to improve as a couple.

Taking each other for granted is one of the biggest threats to having a strong relationship. However, this pattern can be hard to detect because, well, you're taking things for granted. The way to combat this is to take a step back and look at things objectively. Then try to put yourself in your partner's shoes and ask yourself how you would react to your behavior if you were them. Also, do your best to stop taking them for granted. Don't assume anything about their motives or feelings, but at the same appreciate the things they do.

You will need to reopen the lines of communication. If they were never really open, then you will have to learn how to talk to each other in a healthy way. This can be difficult, but you can learn how to do it with practice. The small investment you make in learning how to talk to each other will pay off in a big way in the long run; besides, it sure beats arguing all the time.

A really good relationship rescue technique is to live as though each day could be the last one you will ever spend with your partner. When you do this, all of those little things that annoy you won't really matter. You will have a new appreciation for what you have, and you will focus much less on the negative things. Doing this will put the two of you on the right track to being a healthy couple.

Remember, you do not have to accept a bad relationship. You can use relationship rescue techniques to make things better. It may not always be easy, especially if you have had a lot of time to develop bad habits as a couple, but it will be more than worth it when the two of you are happy again.

Saturday, March 12, 2011

How To Win Love Back For Real

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How To Win Love Back For Real

It seems like human nature to get into a rut in our relationships. When this happens we start to take our partner for granted. It's not even that we expect them to do certain things or behave a certain way; it's not a conscious thought at all. If you are on the verge of a break up, or have recently gone through one, then you know how true this is. The good news is that you can turn things around if you are willing to do whatever it takes to be happy together.

As you may have already guessed, the first step to winning back love is to stop taking it for granted. You need to appreciate your partner, who they are, what they mean to you, and also what the relationship means you. Once you start looking at things this way, you will regain a healthy perspective. You will start to notice those things about your partner that made you fall in love with them in the first place.

One of the rules of life is that you can only change yourself. So, while you are seeing your relationship in a new light, your partner may not. Remember, you can't force them to change. However, you can definitely have a big influence on their behavior. How so? Through your own actions. The last thing you want to do is get all preachy, as this will only push them further away. Instead, start acting like you're not taking them for granted.

Now, they may not even notice that you have changed, at least not in a way that they're aware of. But stick with it, and you can be sure they will start to change themselves. Don't point it out, but encourage it indirectly by rewarding it. This may seem like manipulation, and it may be, but it's being done for the right reasons. After all, if you want to win love back, and they don't want to love you, then they won't. So, don't think of it as manipulation, but rather as a way to give the two of you a chance to fall back in love without having to resort to the emotional equivalent of brute force.

It is absolutely vital that you're motivations are good, otherwise everything will backfire. If you try to win back love for the wrong reasons, and you're successful, then things will turn sour. It will be virtually guaranteed that the relationship will come to an end. However, if you do it for the right reasons, and it works, then the two of you could be happy for many, many years to come. Either way, it won't always be easy, but if you really love each other, then it will be worthwhile.

All of this may sound great, but there is a catch. You actually have to follow through on it. You need to take the first step. It doesn't matter what that first step is, what matters is that you do something, anything, to win love back. You'll be glad you did.
 

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