tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89634427716266130282024-03-13T14:18:13.874-07:00Get Your Ex BackFashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.comBlogger47125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-40465530293248427592011-04-29T04:09:00.000-07:002011-04-29T04:16:07.745-07:00The Secret To Relationships-Common Sense<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKSEmAwDE6u5nBTeSmfmWzfmZkgS0ObPAo6RX1ALA519FTq3h59pB7pMTUTePhzkZJEXaZ986ox_9RrkHrbULcTxvZziJWTmzQliJABJX7FzAVVoRnRHArpZ9dz6jjaGKleA0vbfyJ8BE/s1600/Relationships-Common+Sense.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 275px; height: 183px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKSEmAwDE6u5nBTeSmfmWzfmZkgS0ObPAo6RX1ALA519FTq3h59pB7pMTUTePhzkZJEXaZ986ox_9RrkHrbULcTxvZziJWTmzQliJABJX7FzAVVoRnRHArpZ9dz6jjaGKleA0vbfyJ8BE/s400/Relationships-Common+Sense.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5600962753138910514" /></a><br />What Is The Secret To Relationships-Common Sense<br /><br /><a href="http://76758esjumpo4y8msc44houijo.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn To Win Love Back Click Here!</a><br /><br />I'm sure if there were secrets to relationships someone would be making millions of dollars selling that secret. Although there is no secret as such there are many things that you can do to help keep your relationship strong and happy. Relationship secrets are really just common sense but they are things that over time we forget to do. <br /><br />1. Love. Obviously a relationship needs love to survive and being in love is not enough if your partner doesn't know that you love them. You need to show each other that you love one another and you need to feel comfortable telling your partner that you love them.<br /><br />2. Secondly you need to have respect in your relationship. If you don't respect one another then there really isn't much hope for a long and happy relationship. There is no point to being with someone that you don't respect and no point being with someone that doesn't respect you.<br /><br />3. Always treat your partner with kindness. I'm sure you don't like it when people are nasty to you and your partner also wouldn't like it if they are treated nastily. Sometimes we take one another for granted and can be sarcastic and a bit nasty without meaning to be. We often treat strangers more kindly than we treat family so make a point to be kind to your partner.<br /><br />4. Be thoughtful of your partners needs and do little things now and then to make him happy. It is amazing how much small gestures can make someone happy and improve a relationship.<br /><br />5. Always be honest in a relationship. You cannot build a relationship on lies or when the truth does come out everything will fall apart. Always be honest and build your relationship on honesty and trust.<br /><br />Although these are not secrets they are important to a relationship and they are what relationships need to survive and be happy. When you haven't been doing these things it can be difficult to get back into the habit of them but it is worth putting in that effort.<br /><br />These are not hard things to do and they are things that you should do with someone that you love. Kindness, honesty and respect will go a long way to making a relationship happy and strong.<br /><br />There is more to a relationship than just existing with one another. You need to show each other that you love one another and this can be done with simple little expressions of love such as giving him a hug when he gets home from work or cooking his favorite meal and eating it by candlelight.<br /><br />Sometimes relationships can take a bit of work to make them strong and happy but over time these things will become natural and you will both be much happier with one another. If you can do these small, common sense things then you have found the secret to relationships.<br /><br /><a href="http://76758esjumpo4y8msc44houijo.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn To Win Love Back Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-34187830731928314222011-04-27T02:41:00.000-07:002011-04-27T02:43:50.049-07:00Relationship Break Up Get Back Together<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXb4hdpV62YF1vJkWqA0okNWdyASJjLVqeLrA3nV1r279nepria8TxEknLHZlM7JV8OGZj2qGgRUlNrKjWz2oeGfdtfSRFGNnA-WGk3u0CpeRaNHUBPQjVvAwQCm2v9u1qN8UL7ctpEgA/s1600/Is+Your+Marriage+In+Crisis-+Are+There+Warning+Signs.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXb4hdpV62YF1vJkWqA0okNWdyASJjLVqeLrA3nV1r279nepria8TxEknLHZlM7JV8OGZj2qGgRUlNrKjWz2oeGfdtfSRFGNnA-WGk3u0CpeRaNHUBPQjVvAwQCm2v9u1qN8UL7ctpEgA/s400/Is+Your+Marriage+In+Crisis-+Are+There+Warning+Signs.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5600196729173115714" /></a><br />Best Way Relationship Break Up Get Back Together - Read This Now<br /><br /> <a href="http://76758esjumpo4y8msc44houijo.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn To Win Love Back Click Here!</a><br /><br />I'm assuming that you are an adult and as such would like helpful information from another adult on the best way relationship break up get back together. Of course, if you prefer, you could take your chances looking all over the internet for advice, but when you find some gibberish seemingly written by a 10 year old, don't say I didn't warn you.<br /><br />You see, knowing what not to do if you want your ex back, is maybe more important than knowing what to do... or at least as important. Many people do exactly the wrong thing when they are faced with this difficult situation. It's not really their fault, few of us react at our best when we're under a lot of emotional strain. <br /><br />Even though everyone is different and every relationship is different, there are some basic principles that have helped thousands of people reunite, and they can help you too. <br /><br />Here are some ideas:<br /><br />1. The first thing you will want to do is probably the first thing you should never do: call your ex. I know, you feel like if you don't contact them and let them know you still love them they may find someone else. But that's not really the way it works. <br /><br />It's true that your ex may well start dating but if they were really in love with you, it will take more than a week or two or a hot body to remove you from their heart. <br /><br />In most cases people who start dating right away after a break up are just looking for someone to ease their pain and loneliness. Give your ex some time to actually miss you. Don't make yourself appear pathetic or like a stalker. <br /><br />2. Spend your time thinking about you, and not them. I know this will be harder than it sounds, but it's important. If the two of you have any chance of getting back together and making things work you will need to figure out who you are and what you want. <br /><br />It's a very good idea to try and figure out where things went wrong with your ex. Once you know what the problems were, you should try to figure out how to fix them. One big mistake some people make is that they act like it's totally up to them to make things right in the relationship. Nope. <br /><br />If the two of you can't, or won't, work together to fix the issues, your own issues as well as the issues you had as a couple, than you might as well run and leave it all in the past. You can't do it all. <br /><br />3. After all this, it's time to call your ex and ask them if they would like to get together. Try to arrange a coffee date or some other time when the two of you can spend some time together. Try to relax, be fun and happy and they will be reminded of the person they fell in love with before. <br /><br />Following all this advice may not be easy to do, but these steps have been proven time and again to help two people reunite and this is the best way relationship break up get back together that I've ever heard of.<br /><br /> <a href="http://76758esjumpo4y8msc44houijo.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn To Win Love Back Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-37130496744370073752011-04-23T05:16:00.000-07:002011-04-23T05:19:31.623-07:00How To Handle A Boyfriend Break Up<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdvDADNaLSk3LTrZDM8Yz5b5FgvOqWeP6ImBy5mt2YEJI2FZ8DpBhgOFyLTOqcZshDO8VIZSTvWIGokMP9UhD2Q9ZioO2cr1-WG3dOrMGdij_AQwj_CyB4yemxAXUlqpfarv73Oy2xBTQ/s1600/friends-with-ex-boyfriend.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 273px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdvDADNaLSk3LTrZDM8Yz5b5FgvOqWeP6ImBy5mt2YEJI2FZ8DpBhgOFyLTOqcZshDO8VIZSTvWIGokMP9UhD2Q9ZioO2cr1-WG3dOrMGdij_AQwj_CyB4yemxAXUlqpfarv73Oy2xBTQ/s400/friends-with-ex-boyfriend.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5598752556561481602" /></a><br />How To Handle A Boyfriend Break Up<br /><br />Have you broken up from your boyfriend? Do you feel like you just can't go on without him? Are you wondering if there is anything that you can do to get him back? <br /><br />If you are wondering if you can get your boyfriend back then you need to look closely at your life and the relationship you had and decide whether that is really what you want. Perhaps it is the thought of a relationship that you want rather than the guy himself. Perhaps you do love him but maybe he just isn't good for you. There really is a lot to consider before you go jumping into trying to get him back. <br /><br />If you do decide that you do want him back then there are steps that you can take to work toward that goal. However, if you decide that it is probably best for you to be apart then there are steps that you can take to help you move on. You need to reach some sort of closure so that you can really recognize that the relationship is over, when you find closure then you can begin to heal.<br /><br />Don't keep all your emotions bottled up or you will continue to hurt and find it more difficult to get over him. You can get your emotions out by doing the following:<br /><br />* See a counselor or therapist so you can talk about your emotions, talk about the relationship and they can help you to move on. With a counselor you can talk about things that you might not feel comfortable talking about to your family or friends. A third party isn't as personal so it is often easier to talk about things.<br /><br />* Talk to friends and family and get your feelings out in the open. If your friends or family just tell you to get over it and don't want to listen to you, then find someone else to talk to. You want a good friend that will be empathetic, supportive and help you work through your feelings.<br /><br />* Start a journal and write your feelings down. Even though writing your feelings isn't talking, it is still getting them out and giving you a way to release them. Poetry is often good too if you enjoy poetry then put your feelings in to a poem. <br /><br />Next you want to get rid of anything around the house that will remind you of your ex and especially get rid of things that belong to him. Return all his belongings to him and anything he doesn't want just throw away. If he has given you gifts that you can't bear to throw away then put them in a box and store them away somewhere where you won't see them every day.<br /><br />Then you need to make some plans to go out, perhaps you can go out with your friends. You don't want to spend too much time at home alone or you will just sit and think about your ex. It is best to go out and enjoy yourself. This is the opportunity to do the things you really love but perhaps didn't do too often because your ex didn't enjoy them. This is your opportunity to get to know the real you and enjoy yourself doing whatever you want to do.<br /><br />Do whatever makes you happy. Make some lifestyle changes - a change is as good as a holiday so they say. Start a healthy diet, go to the gym and exercise regularly. Start to feel really good about yourself so you can be happy with whom you are as an individual and not as part of a couple.<br /><br />By getting out and enjoying yourself and doing the things that make you happy you fill find that you begin to miss your ex less and less. You will become much happier as a person and will grow in self esteem and self confidence.<br /><br />You don't need to rush in to a new relationship, you will know when the time is right and perhaps it might happen when you least expect it. If you begin to have feelings toward someone else then you will know that you are well and truly over your ex. Then your boyfriend break up will be a thing of the past as you are moving on with your future.<br /><a href="http://76758esjumpo4y8msc44houijo.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn To Win Love Back Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-75574936187244172532011-04-19T03:57:00.000-07:002011-04-19T04:01:25.044-07:00Evaluating Your Marriage Break Up- Take The Time<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqwq9qRS78P7LoLGd8oJT8QtnP5MYs21oln8RxaSX-AOUHg5-BsKkuDCTADnh5SJPQYpcJHhtQnnEhsHki573LcciPuUg8qoyLvJ5FNP4zSZbQDllRDjESGiKGblkkTCvrBAYcKpJ0iGI/s1600/Marriage+Break+Up.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 210px; height: 170px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqwq9qRS78P7LoLGd8oJT8QtnP5MYs21oln8RxaSX-AOUHg5-BsKkuDCTADnh5SJPQYpcJHhtQnnEhsHki573LcciPuUg8qoyLvJ5FNP4zSZbQDllRDjESGiKGblkkTCvrBAYcKpJ0iGI/s400/Marriage+Break+Up.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5597248002627425378" /></a><br />Evaluating Your Marriage Break Up- Take The Time<br /><br />You may be feeling quite overwhelmed if you are dealing with a marriage break up. With all there is to think about and deal with you may not know where to start. It is best to step back, clear your head and then sort everything out logically and if possible without too much emotion attached.<br /><br />When you get married you believe that the marriage will last forever and it can come as a big shock when that marriage falls apart. Your planned life has suddenly changed drastically and you aren't sure where your life is heading anymore. Then there are so many issues to take care of, both emotionally and financially. The issues can be much worse if you have children involved who will also be affected by a divorce.<br /><br />There may be a chance that you can work things out and get your marriage back together. This does happen between couples if they can sit down and talk about what the problems are in their marriage without it turning into an argument. If you find that every time you try to talk about things you both walk away angrier than before, then perhaps you should use a mediator.<br /><br />A marriage counselor can help you to talk things through and work out your issues. A church pastor or minister is another option and often quite a good one. A pastor tends to be more committed to helping save marriages as it is what the church firmly believes in. A pastor will genuinely want to help you to restore your marriage and will do what he can to assist you with that.<br /><br />If your marriage is beyond repair and you know that it is over for good then you need to accept that it is over and start planning for your future. A good divorce attorney is always a good idea and it really is best to get all your finances and assets settled sooner rather than later.<br /><br />To settle all the financial matters you may need to consider selling your house and splitting the proceeds or one party buying out the other. You will need to split any bank account balances or loans. Then there is the furniture and appliances in your home, you will need to decide who will take what. It is best to get all of these things sorted out early so you can get closure and move on. If you delay settling these issues then it can be difficult to move on.<br /><br />The hardest thing to handle during a marriage break up is if there are children involved and you need to decide on custody. It is important to put the child's best interests first and always do what is best for them. Don't try to influence the way the child feels about the other parent as this can confuse and even damage a child psychologically. You also need to be careful of the children's feelings about the divorce as many children will think that it is somehow their fault so you need to make sure that your child knows that the divorce is not his fault. Assure the children that you love them and that the problem lies between you and your ex and nothing to do with them.<br /><br />Never get your children stuck in the middle of fights between you and your ex. Don't talk badly about your ex in front of them or do anything to alienate them from the other parent. Unless the children have been abused by your ex, then there should be no reason why he can't have some access to the children.<br /><br />Try to work together with your ex to arrange visitation times and custody. It is best if you can work it out between you instead of dragging it through court and fighting over custody arrangements. Try to be flexible with visitation too, if your ex can't have the kids on time on his allocated night, swap it for another night. For the sake of the kids it is best to try and be negotiable.<br /><br />Whatever you do, don't ever let the kids think that the divorce is their fault and don't get them caught in the middle of any arguments or custody battles. Your future planning must always incorporate your children and have them as your first priority.<br /><br />Marriage break ups aren't easy but you will get through it and move on with your life. <a href="http://76758esjumpo4y8msc44houijo.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn To Win Love Back Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-6251312330073763972011-04-13T04:16:00.000-07:002011-04-13T04:20:15.581-07:00How To Save Your Marriage If You Are A Couple With Problems<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4ygMl9E7h3lJC43WufPr-u0VW7CnBk5ObG3dIj-8ROtN-HWyI3gDKSlUVE0DqNp2CTW8q5UO5u5JaXIl8VDkXIAhovMkCRopsY8Kg5xxfXeXOmgrF46D4AmDDzcewyzBFNeLQzPGxAqk/s1600/MrgCouns_Dec_340.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 340px; height: 183px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4ygMl9E7h3lJC43WufPr-u0VW7CnBk5ObG3dIj-8ROtN-HWyI3gDKSlUVE0DqNp2CTW8q5UO5u5JaXIl8VDkXIAhovMkCRopsY8Kg5xxfXeXOmgrF46D4AmDDzcewyzBFNeLQzPGxAqk/s400/MrgCouns_Dec_340.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5595026424731788642" /></a><br /><br /><br />Are you a couple with problems? Not just everyday problems, but ones that threaten your very relationship? If you are one of the many couples who want to know how to save your marriage, there is good news: it is possible, and it’s easier than you may think.<br /><br />To pinpoint a solution, you first have to know what the problem is. And it’s not always the most obvious problem, either. Many times, it is something that has been lying dormant, festering, and building momentum. In fact, it often starts with something that is seemingly not what a person is focusing on. But once the floodgates of emotions start to pour out in a heated discussion, it becomes evident that the most obvious reasons for feeling apart are not the only ones.<br /><br />That is why communication is so vital in a marriage. When couples date, they talk about everything- even things that other people would not find interesting. But to a couple, hanging off of the other person’s every word is what builds the relationship and, over time, causes them to want to share every moment- whether it is a defining one, or not.<br /><br />But once couples settle into marriage, things change. Conversations become less frequent, and shorter. Things that used to matter are now just an ordinary occurrence. That’s when life takes over and puts communication in the back seat. Putting less emphasis on talking means shutting down sooner, and over smaller and smaller issues. <br /><br />At the same time, it also means putting less urgency on the important matters. Serious issues become less serious, less serious ones become blasé, and ordinary issues become irrelevant. Downgrading our feelings and our emotions becomes second nature and requires less talk. <br /><br />This is the time to revert back to dating. Going back to a time when everything was important is what needs to happen. If it were once important, it still should be- regardless of how many other things are crowding our lives. Despite the cliché, talk is not cheap- it is imperative. Without communication, everything else starts to crumble and those things that used to matter no longer hold significance.<br /><br />It might even become necessary to have scheduled talking time. This might sound a little extreme, but forcing time to sit together to reflect will start a pattern. Soon, the pattern becomes a habit, and later on, an obsession. Want to know how to save your marriage? It’s simple: remember how to talk to one another.<br /><a href="http://76758esjumpo4y8msc44houijo.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn To Win Love Back Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-37300384134719409902011-04-08T03:36:00.000-07:002011-04-08T03:39:28.041-07:00Things To Avoid For Getting An Ex Back 6 Tips<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiP-tTBBV2b6sMaZKOKjs0_9woFdDWos777ExFPAtZ5tRxp0XrhUclQhvDKVe0GmFd4Qh1GNr9sI8A7lVjadEtYiFxJ4vM9czttPMmJonnjUJmdKXdpmnb-DX6qEidCr7waihz-dG-qTsw/s1600/Ex+Back.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 157px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiP-tTBBV2b6sMaZKOKjs0_9woFdDWos777ExFPAtZ5tRxp0XrhUclQhvDKVe0GmFd4Qh1GNr9sI8A7lVjadEtYiFxJ4vM9czttPMmJonnjUJmdKXdpmnb-DX6qEidCr7waihz-dG-qTsw/s400/Ex+Back.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593160520572617650" /></a><br />If you have just broken up from a relationship, whether it was a long marriage or just a few months of dating, either way you are probably feeling bad about it and wondering if there is any way to get an ex back. Most people will wonder this when they break up from a relationship but are still in love with their ex and the good news is that there are things that you can do to get your ex back. Along with the many things that you can do, there are also many mistakes that you can make, so here are some of the things you should avoid if you want to rekindle that lost love.<br /><br />1. Don't constantly harass their friends. It is tempting to harass your ex's friends to find out what she is up to or if she is dating anyone else. This is just annoying to her friends and as such they will probably just complain to her about you and not have anything good to say. <br /><br />2. Don't stalk your ex. Don't follow her around or turn up at her favorite hang out spots. Don't sit in your car outside her house and watch her every move. Don't text her 500 times a day telling her you love her and want her back. If you stalk her all you will do is annoy her and perhaps even begin to scare her and you could end up getting in trouble with the law over it.<br /><br />3. Don't harass your ex's new partner. If she is seeing someone else don't harass him and try to cause trouble between them. Don't try to convince their new boyfriend that she'll never love them as much as she loves you, this will only make you look desperate and sad.<br /><br />4. Don't call your ex's employer. If your ex is avoiding your calls don't try to get her to talk to you through her boss. Also don't call her boss to ask questions about her. All you will achieve with this is to get her in trouble and possibly even lose her job.<br /><br />5. Don't call her every change you get. I know you just want to talk to her and try to work things out but if you call her constantly she will get sick of it and even angry. She might just need some space right now so you need to give her that.<br /><br />6. Don't use anything they say against them. You won't win any fights by bringing up every little thing she said or did in the past and use it against her, particularly if you exaggerate things and make them much worse than they actually were.<br /><br />These six points are things to avoid when you are trying to get your ex back. You want to get her back, not drive her further away so be careful in your approach. You want to give her some space and use that time yourself to decide what approach to take. It can be difficult playing the waiting game, but it will be worth it in the end.<br /><a href="http://76758esjumpo4y8msc44houijo.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn To Win Love Back Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-41295762189311022362011-04-01T03:32:00.000-07:002011-04-01T03:37:54.074-07:00Saving A Relationship Tips That Work<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivLoHfDZg5731gHRnRj1aqGEUCCFkxpQKkUzhwS6CIW0ecB51gX-Xg6sPYyohQQeE_NN6jB7EBdQFaMYgOGLqop_InqPwDIczArBQe_wMEVyD1SSNcc-ER__zumFftUTMHcwOqppp8IrA/s1600/broken-relationship.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 250px; height: 220px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivLoHfDZg5731gHRnRj1aqGEUCCFkxpQKkUzhwS6CIW0ecB51gX-Xg6sPYyohQQeE_NN6jB7EBdQFaMYgOGLqop_InqPwDIczArBQe_wMEVyD1SSNcc-ER__zumFftUTMHcwOqppp8IrA/s400/broken-relationship.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5590562310881783506" /></a><br />When it comes to saving a relationship, you might feel as though you're sitting on a sinking ship. Some relationships just aren't meant to be saved, but if yours happens to be one of the lucky few that are worth the extra effort then you need to take certain steps to make that happen. <br /><br />The first step to saving a relationship is sitting down and having an honest conversation with your partner. Without communication, a relationship is nothing. It doesn't matter if it's a friendship, dating relationship or marriage. No matter what kind of connection you have with the person, open and honest communication is vital to making sure that you have a healthy relationship.<br /><br />Another part of preserving your relationship is understanding what the problems are. Obviously, if you have to consider "saving" your relationship, then there is some sort of issue that you think is potentially harmful to your bond. If you want to stay together with this person, you have to look closely at what the real issues are. For instance, has there been infidelity? If so, you might want to consider getting some kind of counseling as a way of overcoming the problems.<br /><br />Another tip for saving your relationship is going above and beyond what you would normally do. One way of thinking about this is that you should wake up each morning with the intention of doing things in your partner's life to make it better. In other words, it shouldn't all be about you. You should be thinking about things you can do to make your partner happy and more content in their daily life. They should also be thinking the same way about you. Having a one-sided relationship is never a good thing.<br /><br />Saving a relationship can take a lot of hard work. It might involve going to counseling. However, the vital component to making things work is knowing when to quit. Sometimes a relationship is just not meant to be. It's not that the people in the relationship are necessarily bad; it's just that they are not a good match for each other. It's not enough to simply love someone. You have to also like and respect the person enough to be in a long-term commitment with them. For this reason, really be honest with yourself about where your relationship is heading over the long haul. If you still want to make it work, expect to put in a lot of effort.<br /><br /><a href="http://2f730grf2ffoezdepaohhfrx4x.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn More Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-19475623141452860652011-03-29T02:29:00.000-07:002011-03-29T02:30:08.407-07:00What To Do If You Miss Your Ex<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTVrmhNqGWNmsiIz5oVvtZ94F1O8rPdpFL9MnHqHe9XH-ZP6dUmDHaAatgyHaSm38wGXtbYvaYNI_bxP2citpFNuIdMwJ471nK9dzYfHCAkib3hsF3xNaGpEG4lKHnkjJJXnbZWbZRSL3A/s1600/the-top-method-to-get-your-ex-back-300x209.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 209px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTVrmhNqGWNmsiIz5oVvtZ94F1O8rPdpFL9MnHqHe9XH-ZP6dUmDHaAatgyHaSm38wGXtbYvaYNI_bxP2citpFNuIdMwJ471nK9dzYfHCAkib3hsF3xNaGpEG4lKHnkjJJXnbZWbZRSL3A/s400/the-top-method-to-get-your-ex-back-300x209.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5589431611528832322" /></a><br />Going through a break up is never easy. In fact, it almost always sucks (to be blunt). Still, in a way you are just relieved to be done with it. Or so you thought. Then as some time passes, you start to realize that you still miss your ex. Oh no! What are you going to do? This isn't supposed to happen, is it? The two of you are broken up, and that's that. Let's take a deeper look at the issue, and you will see that things may not be quite as bad as they seem right now.<br /><br />So, you miss your ex, but is that a bad thing? That really is the question, and getting to the bottom of it will determine how well you deal with your feelings for your ex. <br /><br />The first thing you need to figure out is whether you really miss your ex or not. Remember, your emotions are going to be running high, and your thinking won't always be clear after a break up. You may think you miss your ex, but the reality is that you may miss having somebody to hang out with. Or maybe you are afraid you will never find love again. Neither of those things are really about your ex, they are about you, and that's okay. The main thing is that you get to the root of what your true feelings are.<br /><br />Assuming you really do miss your ex, you have a decision to make: should you get over them, or try to get back with your ex? You may have a gut reaction to that question, but you don't want to act on it too quickly. There is no wrong answer here, but you do need to think about it carefully. <br /><br />If you choose to get on with your life, then you will need to work through your emotions. Yes, you miss your ex, but now it's time to move on. It won't be easy, but you need to do it if you ever want to be happy again. If you can't seem to do it on your own, then talk to a friend, member of the clergy, or a counselor. Each of them can help in their own way, and you'll be glad once it's done.<br /><br />On the other hand, you may decide that you want to try to get your ex back. This brings on a whole new set of challenges, but it can be done. Luckily, there has been a lot of information written about how to do this. So, rather than going off on a whole different tangent, suffice it to say that you can easily find out how to get your ex back if that's what you have decided to do.<br /><br />Just because you miss your ex, doesn't mean you have to live with that feeling. Though it may not seem possible to you now, you can get through this. You have a few options, but the key is to take action. It will take some effort, but it will be worth it once you're happy again.<br /><br /><a href="http://2f730grf2ffoezdepaohhfrx4x.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn More Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-22370620713682577342011-03-13T07:22:00.001-07:002011-03-13T07:22:50.058-07:00Relationship Rescue TechniquesSimple Relationship Rescue Techniques<br /><br />Wouldn't it be great if all relationships were happy all of the time? Maybe, but we all live in the real world, and that means we often face real problems. Sure, they may start off really well, and the two of you are so in love that it's amazing, but then things start to change. The novelty starts to wear off, and before you know it you're looking for relationship rescue methods in the hopes of staying together. If any of this sounds familiar, then you are not alone. The good news is that there are plenty of things you can do, as you will see. <br /><br />The most important thing for you to realize is that your relationship is worth rescuing. If you disagree with this, then you need to find out why. What other things are going on? Why aren't you so sure about making things better? If there is something holding you back, you will need to fix that first before you move on to working things out. From here on out we will talk as though you truly want to improve as a couple.<br /><br />Taking each other for granted is one of the biggest threats to having a strong relationship. However, this pattern can be hard to detect because, well, you're taking things for granted. The way to combat this is to take a step back and look at things objectively. Then try to put yourself in your partner's shoes and ask yourself how you would react to your behavior if you were them. Also, do your best to stop taking them for granted. Don't assume anything about their motives or feelings, but at the same appreciate the things they do.<br /><br />You will need to reopen the lines of communication. If they were never really open, then you will have to learn how to talk to each other in a healthy way. This can be difficult, but you can learn how to do it with practice. The small investment you make in learning how to talk to each other will pay off in a big way in the long run; besides, it sure beats arguing all the time.<br /><br />A really good relationship rescue technique is to live as though each day could be the last one you will ever spend with your partner. When you do this, all of those little things that annoy you won't really matter. You will have a new appreciation for what you have, and you will focus much less on the negative things. Doing this will put the two of you on the right track to being a healthy couple.<br /><br />Remember, you do not have to accept a bad relationship. You can use relationship rescue techniques to make things better. It may not always be easy, especially if you have had a lot of time to develop bad habits as a couple, but it will be more than worth it when the two of you are happy again.Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-74939398257953495652011-03-12T05:12:00.001-08:002011-03-12T05:12:34.428-08:00How To Win Love Back For RealHow To Win Love Back For Real<br /><br />It seems like human nature to get into a rut in our relationships. When this happens we start to take our partner for granted. It's not even that we expect them to do certain things or behave a certain way; it's not a conscious thought at all. If you are on the verge of a break up, or have recently gone through one, then you know how true this is. The good news is that you can turn things around if you are willing to do whatever it takes to be happy together.<br /><br />As you may have already guessed, the first step to winning back love is to stop taking it for granted. You need to appreciate your partner, who they are, what they mean to you, and also what the relationship means you. Once you start looking at things this way, you will regain a healthy perspective. You will start to notice those things about your partner that made you fall in love with them in the first place.<br /><br />One of the rules of life is that you can only change yourself. So, while you are seeing your relationship in a new light, your partner may not. Remember, you can't force them to change. However, you can definitely have a big influence on their behavior. How so? Through your own actions. The last thing you want to do is get all preachy, as this will only push them further away. Instead, start acting like you're not taking them for granted. <br /><br />Now, they may not even notice that you have changed, at least not in a way that they're aware of. But stick with it, and you can be sure they will start to change themselves. Don't point it out, but encourage it indirectly by rewarding it. This may seem like manipulation, and it may be, but it's being done for the right reasons. After all, if you want to win love back, and they don't want to love you, then they won't. So, don't think of it as manipulation, but rather as a way to give the two of you a chance to fall back in love without having to resort to the emotional equivalent of brute force.<br /><br />It is absolutely vital that you're motivations are good, otherwise everything will backfire. If you try to win back love for the wrong reasons, and you're successful, then things will turn sour. It will be virtually guaranteed that the relationship will come to an end. However, if you do it for the right reasons, and it works, then the two of you could be happy for many, many years to come. Either way, it won't always be easy, but if you really love each other, then it will be worthwhile. <br /><br />All of this may sound great, but there is a catch. You actually have to follow through on it. You need to take the first step. It doesn't matter what that first step is, what matters is that you do something, anything, to win love back. You'll be glad you did.Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-6424478157252069572011-02-12T07:23:00.001-08:002011-02-12T07:25:03.794-08:00Boyfriend Break Up Is It Possible to Get Ex BackBoyfriend Break Up Is It Possible to Get Ex Back<br /><br />Did your boyfriend break up with you? This is a rough time in your life. You are probably hurting and want to know what caused your boyfriend break up. <br /><br />First of all, while you can use this time to look at yourself and where you are in your life, don’t do too much introspection. The truth behind why your boyfriend break up with you is that he had his own issues. You know what they say, “it’s not you, it’s me.”<br /><br />You can spend time trying to get your ex back. If you are going to go down this route, you need to know the following things:<br /><br />· Don’t pester your ex – when your boyfriend break up with you, it meant that you have more limited access to him. So don’t text him multiple times a day or call him a lot. <br /><br />· It’s okay to flirt with other guys in his presence. It may even make him want you back more.<br /><br />· When you do get back together for a “trial date” be cheerful and friendly but don’t pressure him for more than he can handle.<br /><br />But, if you have a feeling in your gut that the relationship is over when your boyfriend break up with you, then you need to start moving on. <br /><br />One of the first things you can do after your boyfriend break up is to sit down and write a long letter to him pouring out your heart. You can talk about the good times and bad. You can tell him what a jerk he is and call him all sorts of names. But, don’t mail the letter! Instead, take a candle out and burn it. This is one of the best ways to get closure after a boyfriend break up.<br /><br />The next thing you need to do is do a property exchange. Give him back the t-shirt that you love to sleep in. Get the econ textbook you lent him. If there are things like toothbrushes that are too trivial to exchange, throw them away. Don’t have anything around that reminds you of him. If you have gifts that he gave you, box them up for the time being. If you have any money issues to resolve like debts to the other or a joint checking account, get them sorted out.<br /><br />After you have completed the property exchange, agree that you won’t have any communication for 30 days. This may be hard if you are used to seeing each other on a daily basis, but after a boyfriend break up it is necessary to give yourself some space and distance. <br /><br />It hurts a lot when a boyfriend break up with you. But it isn’t the end of your life. You can even look at it as a good thing because it means that you are now free to meet your true soul mate.<br /><br />Of course, you shouldn’t jump to the conclusion that just because you’ve gone through a boyfriend break up that all of the doors are firmly shut. If you think you have a shot of winning him back and that’s something you want, you should by all means take the opportunity to do so.<br /><br />True love can even survive a boyfriend break up.<br /><a href="http://76758esjumpo4y8msc44houijo.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn To Win Love Back Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-24899963642700710682011-01-15T06:03:00.001-08:002011-01-15T06:03:16.487-08:00Walmart.com<a target='new' href="http://linksynergy.walmart.com/fs-bin/click?id=btSPiHptGtM&offerid=183959.10002326&subid=0&type=4"><IMG border="0" alt="Wal-Mart.com USA, LLC" src="http://ad.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/show?id=btSPiHptGtM&bids=183959.10002326&subid=0&type=4&gridnum=14"></a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-64437655508346890392010-11-11T03:41:00.000-08:002010-11-11T03:45:19.323-08:00How To Stop A Divorce<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLhpUEoJlPM7TrojI_dX1WpmrAkHTa7YuRAEK2Y9ZsIb5Vj36wYlzJcaVzQmQ7Pi3YDe9zqqIhr0Mlyv35cmNVLzqPPH6hYYR3C3I4dEbj97MHD2qgir8TFW8Ds1vTu-bfotMIEJ5Szu8/s1600/brokentrust%252CHow+To+Stop+A+Divorce.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 265px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLhpUEoJlPM7TrojI_dX1WpmrAkHTa7YuRAEK2Y9ZsIb5Vj36wYlzJcaVzQmQ7Pi3YDe9zqqIhr0Mlyv35cmNVLzqPPH6hYYR3C3I4dEbj97MHD2qgir8TFW8Ds1vTu-bfotMIEJ5Szu8/s400/brokentrust%252CHow+To+Stop+A+Divorce.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5538256590960688162" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">How To Stop A Divorce</span><br /><br />A break up is a tough thing to go through when you are dating. But when you are married, a break up is much more than just a break up...it's a divorce. When this happens it's quite common for one of the spouses to want to know how to stop a divorce. With that in mind, here some things to help you do that.<br /><br />Before you actually try to stop your divorce, you need to ask yourself if it's really the right thing to do. Perhaps you still love your spouse and you would like to make things work. There's nothing wrong with feeling that way. However, it's in your best interest to take plenty of time to think things through. Why do you really want to stop the divorce? Is it because you are in love, or is it because you feel more secure being married? The main thing is to be honest with yourself, regardless of where that honesty leads.<br /><br />From here on we will assume that you have the right motivations for wanting to stop your divorce. If you have only been threatened with divorce, try to find out how serious the threat is. That's not to downplay it as an idle threat. Any time the D-word is brought up, it should be taken seriously. At the same time, sometimes people get frustrated in the heat of an argument and say they want a divorce. But deep down, what they really men is that they don't know what else to say and they just want to be away from you until you both calm down.<br /><br />So, take some time to find out what's really going on. If your spouse still says they want a divorce even when you are not mad at each other, then you need to start taking action right away. Whatever you do, don't get mad. Treat it in as calm of a manner as possible and find out what is at the root of them wanting to be separated. <br /><br />Once you know why they want a divorce, you will be in a better position to stop a divorce from happening. However, you also need to ask yourself what changes will have to be made to make things work, and if you will be willing and able to make those changes. <br /><br />Now, what if your spouse has already seen a lawyer to start divorce proceedings against you? This will make things that much harder, but it's still possible to stop a divorce even after the papers have been filed. You will need to be at the top of your game and ready to do some serious work. However, if you really want to be with your spouse and restore your marriage, then doing whatever it takes is what you'll have to do.<br /><br />These things are never easy, but don't lose hope. Total honesty, being open and making the needed changes will give you the best chance to stop a divorce.<br /><a href="http://2f730grf2ffoezdepaohhfrx4x.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn More Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-12641108826557221662010-11-10T03:18:00.000-08:002010-11-10T03:24:00.589-08:00Dealing With Relationship Break Up<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdOtgkE5Ra2d2QL2-NULw3bPkNZKe6KF3nS27CeFNNo2sjVO2b7fDEaCSk33gyY48VhvvmYRlPHKTZuQoP9FlME6m9Dy3H-EYvW5rPAN-CwlhQcR1SuHSNr3kMVrNstgI1Wyb590WsePQ/s1600/Breaking_Up_Relationship.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 336px; height: 336px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdOtgkE5Ra2d2QL2-NULw3bPkNZKe6KF3nS27CeFNNo2sjVO2b7fDEaCSk33gyY48VhvvmYRlPHKTZuQoP9FlME6m9Dy3H-EYvW5rPAN-CwlhQcR1SuHSNr3kMVrNstgI1Wyb590WsePQ/s400/Breaking_Up_Relationship.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5537880287595253074" /></a><br />Dealing With Relationship Break Up - Regroup And Sort It Out<br /><br />Yuck, one of the worst things to have to go through is the loss of a relationship. It may not seem like you'll ever feel like you again. In most cases it will take time to get back to the 'normal' life you had before. The longer and more intense the relationship the longer it usually takes dealing with relationship break up. <br /><br />There are no hard and fast rules about how long it should take to move on after a breakup. Everyone is different. Sometimes friends and family may mean well when they tell you to 'get back out there' but in reality, they may be depriving you of the opportunity to get your head around everything that has happened. <br /><br />This time to regroup and sort everything out is very important, if it's done right. It's not about wallowing in 'what if's' or stalking your ex, or spending weeks on the couch convinced that your life is over. If you spend this time analyzing the relationship, good and bad, try to figure out honestly where you went wrong, you'll stand a much better chance of being able to move on with minimal baggage. <br /><br />Now, no one is saying that you'll be able to look at things logically and clearly in a few weeks. In most cases it will take a month, or months, to get enough distance to be able to start deconstructing where the relationship went wrong, and that is one of the reasons you don't need to rush the 'moving on' stage. <br /><br />On the other hand, you should be making at least small, consistent strides forward after a month or so. If not, you may need some extra help. If you're just not moving on, even in baby steps, you should seek help. The same thing holds true if you find yourself engaging in self destructive behavior such as having sex with anyone you can find or drinking too much. <br /><br />Don't think of this as being a sign of weakness, as a matter of fact, nothing could be further from the truth. It takes enormous amounts of strength and courage to admit you have a problem and ask for help. <br /><br />If you are doing o.k. on your own than one of the things you should be doing is spending time doing positive things with positive people. Most of us have that one friend who seems to be able to make us laugh no matter what is going on in our world. Spend time with that person. <br /><br />It's also a good idea to rediscover yourself, those parts you put on hold when you were with your partner. Those things you like to do but didn't do because your partner didn't want to do them. Now is the time to re acquaint yourself with those activities. <br /><br />Breakups suck, I'm sorry but there's just no polite way to say it. The nice thing is that if you approach it the right way, you can find constructive ways of dealing with relationship break up that might not only help you move on a little more quickly, but that also might help you out in your next relationship.<br /><br /><a href="http://76758esjumpo4y8msc44houijo.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn To Win Love Back Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-60537551448223373892010-10-17T03:31:00.000-07:002010-10-17T03:35:27.253-07:00How Do I Get My Wife To Love Me Again<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguBPkCbMwbuNYiOU-1VjJYRtIzfnXZkC40J8jB08bBqUevQ-Ag3skH2gyJPwYjwzeLBwdMuRNQXSQ6W2g36SVxDRSTIC_tbG4WvgDBeIC1T_lkZ15L1whXceljOev0A2UKnxeheidjUSWv/s1600/How+Do+I+Get+My+Wife+To+Love+Me+Again.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 256px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguBPkCbMwbuNYiOU-1VjJYRtIzfnXZkC40J8jB08bBqUevQ-Ag3skH2gyJPwYjwzeLBwdMuRNQXSQ6W2g36SVxDRSTIC_tbG4WvgDBeIC1T_lkZ15L1whXceljOev0A2UKnxeheidjUSWv/s400/How+Do+I+Get+My+Wife+To+Love+Me+Again.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5528961306251951186" /></a><br /><br />If you're wondering, how do I get my wife to love me again, the short answer is that she probably still does love you. It's an unfortunate truth but many times couples will still love each other but they just get so caught up in their day to day lives that they kind of 'forget' about each other. It happens all the time and unless you've really treated your wife badly for a long time or you've cheated on her, she probably does still love you. The two of you just need to remind yourselves about that love. <br /><br />Our society can be very busy and very stressful. There are more distractions around than ever before. It seems people are always texting, tweeting and updating their status. What people don't seem to do as much of anymore is to connect with the people they love. Just sit together and talk (or just sit together and enjoy the moment, the quiet and each others company). Slow down and 're-introduce' yourself to your partner. <br /><br />Doing this one thing can make a world of difference. A word of caution, though, don't think you can spend this time together once a year and it will be enough. You and your spouse have to connect on a deeper level often in order to keep the passion and the love alive. <br /><br />If you and your wife have gotten to the point where you are more like room mates than soul mates you really need to disconnect with the outside world and reconnect with each other. There are many ways you can do that but one of the best (other than the quiet time I mentioned above) is for the two of you to spend time doing things together that you both enjoy. <br /><br />If you and your wife like to play tennis, than by all means, go play tennis. The same goes for playing golf, hiking, biking, bird watching, antiquing, etc. It doesn't matter what the activity is as long as you both enjoy it and it allows the two of you to spend time together enjoying life together. This can really help the two of you bond, you'll always have the memory of that great time you spent together. It's these times and these memories that can hold a relationship together when things get tough, don't under estimate their importance. <br /><br />If your marriage has really spiraled out of control, than you may need the help of an outside source like a counselor. Having an objective third party help steer you and your wife through some of your issues (which can help prevent all the useless fighting) might be the best thing you can do. A counselor can not only help keep the peace, but they can also help both of you recognize what the problems are and how to fix them. <br /><br />I have good news for you,you can get your marriage back on track. The amount of time and effort it will take will depend on how far apart you and your wife have grown as well as the reason for that disconnect from one another. Step one should be to spend time alone with your wife getting re-acquainted, then you can build from there. 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Unfortunately, though, many relationships fail--and most<br />of us end up dealing with more than a few broken hearts during<br />our lifetimes. It's tough enough when a breakup happens as a<br />mutual decision; however, when a guy dumps you, that can make it<br />even more difficult to handle. <br /><br />If he dumped you and you need some help in getting over the<br />loss, read the following suggestions and give them a try. They<br />will help you to live through the stormy days following the<br />breakup and come out on the other side feeling ready to move on.<br /><br />1. Go ahead and grieve.<br /><br />While it may sound melodramatic to 'grieve' over a breakup, you<br />have experienced a deep loss. Therefore, you need to grieve and<br />get those emotions out. For the first few days it is ok to cry<br />and mope around and feel sorry about what you have lost. Get<br />support from close friends if needed, but do NOT contact your ex.<br />You need to let go of the relationship, act as if it is buried<br />and gone.<br /><br />2. Get rid of any evidence of your ex.<br /><br />Go through all of your belongings and get rid of everything that<br />reminds you of the breakup. Put away all photos of him and any<br />gifts he gave you. As for what to do with them, it depends. You<br />may want to pack up photos as possible mementos for years later.<br />With gifts, you may want to pack them up, sell them, give them<br />away, or donate them. It is completely your decision as to what<br />to do; however, be sure to get everything out of your sight.<br /><br />Don't forget to change or remove any of your ex's playlists on<br />your iPod or MP3 player. Change your telephone ringtones if<br />necessary as well. Eliminate all traces of him from your life so<br />that there will be nothing to remind you of him on a daily<br />basis.<br /><br />3. Make a list of what irked you about your ex.<br /><br />Yes, right now you are still missing him because he dumped you;<br />however, take a few moments and think about how your relationship<br />really was. There had to be some habits or quirks about your<br />boyfriend that you found to be exasperating. Write these<br />down--as many as you can. Think about everything, from big<br />issues (maybe he refused to stop talking on his cell while<br />driving, even though you considered this to be dangerous) to the<br />little concerns (perhaps he often spilled sugar on the counter<br />when makin his morning coffee and never wiped it up).<br /><br />The point of making this list is to show you that your<br />relationship was not perfect and that your ex is not worthy of<br />being worshipped. In addition, you may just see that there were<br />troubles in the relationship...and that perhaps a part of you<br />already realized that you two weren't the ideal couple.<br /><br /><br />Maybe he dumped you--but you will survive and find a way to move<br />on if you follow these suggestions.<br /><br /><a href="http://2f730grf2ffoezdepaohhfrx4x.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn More Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-56310114629233992402010-09-19T04:08:00.000-07:002010-09-19T04:09:11.747-07:005 Simple Tips To Get Ex Boyfriend Back<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2UYJ7FuoAN6qNL2ddPuNQxiDbBbV7yCadHDmLGfof8VtYzKWRbTojHO8aquCHRjCmhWdS1EBYD8rn8JaIq2o4BzPFybmkuzR7HJX-zGUGaGhCNvh4Wi1C4PDdNmedR1PrWMW9ZEwgkH3l/s1600/5+Simple+Tips+To+Get+Ex+Boyfriend+Back.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 259px; height: 194px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2UYJ7FuoAN6qNL2ddPuNQxiDbBbV7yCadHDmLGfof8VtYzKWRbTojHO8aquCHRjCmhWdS1EBYD8rn8JaIq2o4BzPFybmkuzR7HJX-zGUGaGhCNvh4Wi1C4PDdNmedR1PrWMW9ZEwgkH3l/s400/5+Simple+Tips+To+Get+Ex+Boyfriend+Back.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5518579175547889010" /></a><br />Ex Boyfriend To Get Back Read 5 Simple Tips<br /><br />It is not easy for you and your ex boyfriend to get back after a<br />breakup. However, there are a few tips that you can follow to<br />have him back again. So many people don’t succeed in winning<br />their ex back. It's not really our fault. No one ever handed us<br />an instruction book when we first started dating that taught us<br />how to handle a breakup. Much less, how to get someone back<br />after a breakup.. If you want your ex boyfriend back then these<br />5 simple steps should help achieve your goal:<br /><br />1.The first tip which will help you and your ex boyfriend to get<br />back is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the<br />negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself.<br />You have to be willing to be strong. <br /> <br />Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down.<br />You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in<br />check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive<br />behavior. <br /><br />2.Accept that the relationship in its prior form is over. All<br />the wishing in the world isn't going to allow you to go back in<br />time and change the way things happened. You can't let your mind<br />keep wandering into the past. <br /><br />Focus on what is going on now. If you realize that the<br />relationship of the past wasn't perfect you're heading in the<br />right direction and laying the foundation for you and your ex<br />boyfriend to get back. Remember you are most likely glossing<br />over all the bad stuff that happened. Think about this; the<br />relationship didn't get broke in a day. Don't expect to be able<br />to fix it in a day either.<br /> <br />3.Don't pester your ex boyfriend. Guys just don't like it when<br />girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends.<br />You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his<br />face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a<br />while. Don't continuously call him, text message him, email him,<br />or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. Give<br />him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to<br />actually miss you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time<br />getting him back.<br /><br />4.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup.<br />Get some new clothes. Get a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a<br />few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When you look<br />good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about<br />yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will<br />be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you<br />will project this image to others. You will become an object of<br />desire to men. This includes your ex boyfriend.<br /><br />5.Take it slow. If you followed steps 1-4 your ex boyfriend at<br />some point will probably get in touch with you. Imagine his<br />surprise when he sees the “new” you from step 4. He will<br />probably be sorry that he broke up with you. Keep your physical<br />contact with him to a minimum, if you do see him. <br /><br />Seeing you looking your best and seeing that you've become<br />confident and happy will make him desire you. If you limit your<br />physical contact with him, this will drive him crazy. It will<br />probably help to ensure that you don't just jump back into a<br />relationship only to breakup a short time later.<br /><br />These tips may not be easy for you to do at first. You may want<br />to give in and call him or see him, but you have to resist the<br />temptation. 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Study after study has shown that even if opposites do attract, they very rarely stay together. this is because there is too little common ground on which to build a relationship. While it can be appealing to meet somebody that is so different from you, the novelty soon wears off. That doesn't mean you should each be carbon copies of one another, far from from it. But you should have a few things in common. Of course, these are all things you should know before you even start thinking about getting married. <br /><br />There are three main requirements for marriage. If you find that any of these are missing, that's okay. Just being aware of them gives you a chance to make them a part of your relationship or improve on them if needed. <br /><br />Good Communication. You have to be able to talk to each other, not at each other. The secret to this is listening. That's much more than hearing what your spouse is saying, you also have to pay attention and try to really understand. If you are unable to communicate with one another, then your marriage is headed for trouble. The good news is that better communication techniques can always be learned. That being said, communication will only work if you meet the next prerequisite. <br /><br />Respect. Everything derives from respect. You take each other seriously (in a good way) and are accepting of you each are. Don't talk down to each other. While you may each have different roles within the marriage, neither one of you is more important than the other.<br /><br />Love. As the old saying goes, "Love conquers all". When you have love, you can live with the other things not being what they should be. However, there can be a problem when only one of you are in love. This puts things too far out of balance, and means it will be harder to work things out. But as long as the feelings of love are mutual, there are no other requirements of marriage that really matter.<br /><br /><a href="http://76758esjumpo4y8msc44houijo.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn To Win Love Back Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-80272562537350748542010-09-17T04:54:00.000-07:002010-09-17T05:00:37.001-07:00Can This Marriage Be Saved<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwFqffwByCUawtZAkfMgPfRHyYFZ9KgMaTuvhrgyEolkEtwXDRvQezOsOtF63xa9bfgeVoZnzR0OG7uYH4m1gyH2K5jVs7b6QrZnbQBBBt1Bbnh0ZEkAlEBjShZL2fP7BHNSi1WUAPeyE/s1600/Can+This+Marriage+Be+Saved.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwFqffwByCUawtZAkfMgPfRHyYFZ9KgMaTuvhrgyEolkEtwXDRvQezOsOtF63xa9bfgeVoZnzR0OG7uYH4m1gyH2K5jVs7b6QrZnbQBBBt1Bbnh0ZEkAlEBjShZL2fP7BHNSi1WUAPeyE/s400/Can+This+Marriage+Be+Saved.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5517850463799868258" /></a><br />Can This Marriage Be Saved - Perhaps<br /><br />If you find that your relationship with your spouse is in a lot of trouble, you have probably asked yourself "can this marriage be saved?" 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Are they shocked, sad, angry, hurt or confused? Whichever it is, respond accordingly. This will be your first opportunity to show you care about your spouse and keeping your marriage together. You have to remember that you are most likely catching your spouse off guard so try to be understanding of their feelings.<br /><br />The next step is to commit to making things work out. You will also need to have your spouse's commitment to do the same thing. Granted, you may have to explain your reasons for why you're asking can this marriage be saved, and let them know you would like it to be saved.<br /><br /><a href="http://2f730grf2ffoezdepaohhfrx4x.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn More Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-14457714318179980302010-09-16T03:47:00.000-07:002010-09-16T03:51:19.897-07:00How to Get My Ex Back When He Has Moved On<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCvJxJEnt2Ob8ybTKqXpkSxWk5UZmSlvXeuNzp4n5BmuMvFe7YbPqOEtWhI8dqQ9MThd4PYKtbJZMJ9l1vWSKgwEw09qhdf5ie55JfJlPLZhECHGWb4vW8MS6uSqCIQUWzVBWQLFaWSnQ/s1600/How+to+Get+My+Ex+Back.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 259px; height: 194px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCvJxJEnt2Ob8ybTKqXpkSxWk5UZmSlvXeuNzp4n5BmuMvFe7YbPqOEtWhI8dqQ9MThd4PYKtbJZMJ9l1vWSKgwEw09qhdf5ie55JfJlPLZhECHGWb4vW8MS6uSqCIQUWzVBWQLFaWSnQ/s400/How+to+Get+My+Ex+Back.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5517461972734684130" /></a><br />Have you lost your boyfriend, and are now asking for help on<br />"how to get my ex back when he's moved on'? Don't bother moping,<br />because what you have lost does not mean you have lost it<br />forever. Here are some quick and simple tips for learning how to<br />get your ex back even if he has moved on to another woman and no<br />longer appears to be interested in associating with you.<br /><br />1 - The first step to getting the man of your dreams back is<br />finding a way to convince him that he still wants you. Unless he<br />really, really does not want anything to do with you, then there<br />are a number of options that you can employ from this point on.<br /><br />2 - One of the most advantageous things that you can do is<br />simply to be his friend. Make a really good friend to him,<br />showing him that you understand him and that you can be around<br />him without creating any drama. Show him that you can joke around<br />with him and have a healthy friendship with him. When the drama<br />and stress of the relationship and breakup have subsided, he may<br />realize that he wants you again.<br /><br />3 - When you communicate with your ex boyfriend, be sweet and<br />kind to him but don't be afraid to have a little bit of attitude.<br />You are going to want him to want you, but you're also going to<br />want to give him the feeling that he cannot have you just yet.<br />While playing games is not the best way to go, you do not want<br />give an air of hard to get, making him more interested in the<br />process.<br /><br />4 - You should be playing a little bit hard to get, but you also<br />want to make sure that he knows you are available. You shouldn't<br />completely rule out the concept of flirting and hanging out with<br />friends, because drumming up a little bit of jealousy never hurt<br />anyone - But it is important that you play it safe because if he<br />doesn't think you are available, he probably will not find the<br />motivation to pursue you.<br /><br />5 - Avoid acting desperate at all costs. If you act desperate,<br />your ex boyfriend will under estimate you. You are going to want<br />to play things cool, letting him know that you are okay with<br />everything that has happened, and that you are willing to move<br />on. If you act desperate, things won't work out the way you are<br />intending them to, so avoid doing this at all costs.<br /><br />6 - Any time that you know he is looking at you, or if you feel<br />like he is looking at you, look at him out of the corner of your<br />eye. This sidelong glance will let him know that you are paying<br />attention to him, but in a mysterious "you can't have me" kind of<br />way.<br /><br />7 - Casually remind him of some of the best times that you have<br />had together. These good memories will help him to remember how<br />good the two of you used to be together. Don't bring up any bad<br />memories, because it will only hurt his bad side, which will not<br />do you any good.<br /><br />These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They<br />are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life.<br />And frankly these aren't my original ideas. I turned to Mike Klade<br />when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.<br /><br />Mike authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan<br />called "Get Your Ex Back". And you know, it worked like<br />magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.<br /><br /><a href="http://2f730grf2ffoezdepaohhfrx4x.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn More Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-12651021932212700482010-09-12T06:12:00.000-07:002010-09-12T06:13:34.468-07:00How A Rebound Relationship Can Work In Your Favor<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuiCpr_2raH6WBIdKqk5LwP90UvREGLZQoUhUbZ1XqTZ74nt2r2F1J6n9jMRdmE9LiKwM83sVgFGn4Er_BMWWO5SildMbr3t1ZMYAZY-4c3A1ykaj0CjNyABzsUl_BTHOlRIvGrAC7RL-W/s1600/Rebound+Relationship.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 325px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuiCpr_2raH6WBIdKqk5LwP90UvREGLZQoUhUbZ1XqTZ74nt2r2F1J6n9jMRdmE9LiKwM83sVgFGn4Er_BMWWO5SildMbr3t1ZMYAZY-4c3A1ykaj0CjNyABzsUl_BTHOlRIvGrAC7RL-W/s400/Rebound+Relationship.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5516014126579389746" /></a><br />If you have broken up with the love of your life and she is in a<br />rebound relationship, how do you get her back?<br /><br />A rebound relationship is one where she is dating someone else<br />to get over you. Rebound relationships keep people from having<br />to deal with the emotions of breaking up. They’re used to help<br />people move on from a real love.<br /><br />And that’s the key to getting your ex back. She’s in a<br />rebound relationship to deal with losing you.<br /><br />It does not matter why she lost you. It doesn’t matter if it<br />is your fault or hers. It doesn’t even matter who actually<br />called the relationship off. What matters is that you have a<br />real love.<br /><br />Because virtually all relationships founded on real love can be<br />saved.<br /><br />If she’s in a rebound relationship, she will be focusing on<br />what is wrong with your relationship. If you were a “good<br />guy” she’ll probably be hanging out with a “bad boy.” If<br />you were into philosophy, he’ll be watching Monday Night<br />Football. Or, vice versa.<br /><br />The fact that she is actually focusing on the differences in<br />your styles is actually good for you for two reasons. Her<br />attention is still focused on you even when she’s with the new<br />guy. And, it gives you a chance to see what she’s looking<br />for.<br /><br />If she’s with someone as different from you as possible, it<br />means that she was missing something in your relationship. You<br />can use the time she’s with rebound man to improve yourself.<br /><br />Let the rebound relationship run its course. Because, as she<br />spends time with the new guy, she’ll start to see the flaws in<br />him. After a month or so with rebound man, you’ll start to<br />look pretty good.<br /><br />That’s why you don’t want to crawl back to her right away.<br />Let her develop the idea that she misses the good things in the<br />relationship. When she’s ready to make a move, be magnanimous.<br />Welcome her back graciously. Be a new and improved boyfriend,<br />but don’t do the chasing.<br /><br />Here are some specific steps to take when your ex is in a<br />rebound relationship:<br /><br />· Don’t try to convince her that you are the love of her<br />life. Let her discover this on her own.<br /><br />· Don’t apologize profusely. If you did something wrong, you<br />can say you’re sorry. Once. But move on. She knows the real<br />reason she loves you.<br /><br />· Don’t make promises to change. You are who you are and<br />that’s who she fell in love with.<br /><br />· Don’t try to make her see that it wasn’t your fault. She<br />will come to appreciate that over time – but only if you<br />haven’t made her invest energy in defending her position that<br />it was your fault.<br /><br />· Never, ever beg her to take you back.<br /><br />When you ex starts going out with someone just after you break<br />up, she’s in a rebound relationship. You can make up with her<br />and get back together. Don’t despair. The rebound<br />relationship is a sign that she’s still in love with you.<br /><br /><a href="http://2f730grf2ffoezdepaohhfrx4x.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn More Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-82660813371640409122010-09-11T05:35:00.000-07:002010-09-11T05:41:43.838-07:00Free Advice On How To Get Your Ex Back - Does It Work<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj63SNVN0BPSSUUw6dOW98eVm45AODMrXoJ1azjpX1pyKHQuPcMGiMc5sVM1qeZIEBi6pupKqwvx1jCZKoSAX16P5fvlDkBspXHq4oEleCnAMMtYS_b_h2Ks8X1NBvKSe1Dez1vcC9SAi8/s1600/marriage2.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 265px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj63SNVN0BPSSUUw6dOW98eVm45AODMrXoJ1azjpX1pyKHQuPcMGiMc5sVM1qeZIEBi6pupKqwvx1jCZKoSAX16P5fvlDkBspXHq4oEleCnAMMtYS_b_h2Ks8X1NBvKSe1Dez1vcC9SAi8/s400/marriage2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5515634311702103874" /></a><br /><br />Free advice on how to get your ex back is abundant online, but how do you know if the advice your getting is any good? Who can you trust? I would recommend you trust yourself. Find some advice, read it and listen with your heart not your head. If the advice 'seems' right, it probably is. If you really want to get back with your ex your heart is the one tool you should be using the most anyway, start there. <br /><br />I don't know you, I don't know why you and your ex are through,and I don't know how long you've been apart. What I do know is that no matter how the problems show up there is almost always one main cause...not being able to communicate. You've probably heard that yourself over and over again. You may even be sick of hearing it. But it's true and until you and your partner learn how to truly listen to each other you will continue to struggle, even after you've gotten back together. <br /><br />Don't make it hard, it's really not. It's just so easy to fall into bad habits. Learn how to identify those habits and you can change them. That way you can be happier in all areas of your life, not just your romantic relationships. The best way to change bad communication habits, believe it or not, is to take a good long look at the type of person you are. <br /><br />Try to pinpoint areas of insecurity and doubt. These are the parts of you that make it difficult for you to truly feel worthy and these are the parts of you that make it easy for you to treat your partner with less than stellar care. You might not really feel worthy of being loved so subconsciously you push away the person who loves you. You may feel (deep down inside) that you need to push them away before they leave you. If you are doing this you probably don't realize it. Accepting this and getting help for it can make a huge difference in your relationships and the change can be obvious to your ex, that is great free advice on how to get your ex back.<br /><br />Please don't dismiss any of this advice just becomes it seems too simple. In reality it's not simple to change deep seated habits. It will take time, attention, and a strong desire. But acknowledging these bad habits and making an effort to fix them will allow you to become a much better person. <br /><br />Good luck on your quest to get your ex back. No matter what the problems were before, or how long the two of you have been apart it's never too late to take control and make things work out the way you really want them to be. It really is possible to do if you're willing to use this free advice on how to get your ex back, don't dismiss it just because it seems too simple.<br /><a href="http://2f730grf2ffoezdepaohhfrx4x.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn More Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963442771626613028.post-19123441270236136052010-09-09T03:55:00.000-07:002010-09-09T03:58:37.866-07:00Get Back Together With Your Ex - Timming Is Everything<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgjikLVJMG6yNQ0ulQ6mZbVkgr_vZk6ndnuuxuJJ4L3sFepFEactyMHIQpyl9aecTQXLNiRS2kyvGAkDFNqvYIEuMx7zeh5MUSqxyjEJ6CRcEfc39kuElfvCxLWC6qMgb1KjAvu41tN-O8/s1600/Get+Back+Together+With+Your+Ex.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 276px; height: 276px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgjikLVJMG6yNQ0ulQ6mZbVkgr_vZk6ndnuuxuJJ4L3sFepFEactyMHIQpyl9aecTQXLNiRS2kyvGAkDFNqvYIEuMx7zeh5MUSqxyjEJ6CRcEfc39kuElfvCxLWC6qMgb1KjAvu41tN-O8/s400/Get+Back+Together+With+Your+Ex.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5514866121347724226" /></a><br /><br />Want to know how to get back together with your ex? You may think that it's impossible, but in most cases, it's not. It's always best to give your ex a little time before you talk to them. Let them cool off somewhat and spend some time alone. Many people want to rush right back in because they're afraid that if they give their ex too much time they will find someone else. And sometimes they do, but don't worry, rebound relationships rarely work out. Just give both of you some time to breathe. <br /><br />Another thing to keep in mind is that unless you make some changes things will only work out the same way when the two of you do get back together. You don't want that do you? Of course not, no one wants to repeat a cycle where they cause pain for themselves and their partner. That's why it's a great idea to figure out what went wrong the first time. By doing this you can make some changes so you don't just repeat the same destructive cycle over and over again. <br /><br />So, when trying to get back together with your ex, how do you figure out what went wrong? It will take some time and honesty. The best way is to think back about some of the arguments you and your ex had. What did you argue about? What did your ex complain to you about regarding your behavior? For example, if your ex says you never listen then that means, at least from their perspective, that you aren't really 'tuned' into them and their needs. Now, of course, this might just be their perception, but more often than not, there's some reason they believe this to be true. If you look honestly at yourself and your behavior you may see some of what they are talking about. <br /><br />So, now that you have some ideas of what issues you've had, now what? Well, now you change. I know, I made that sound easy and it will take time but that's the next step. Once you are aware of the way you act, it's much, much easier to make changes. We tend to do (and act) in default mode most of the time. It's not until we actually, consciously, choose to monitor the way we act and the things we say that we can make real changes. It will take time and practice to make these changes, but you can do it if you want to badly enough. <br /><br />The really neat thing about all of this, is that not only can you get your ex back and have a great relationship with them, but you'll also be a better person. <br /><br />So, to recap, if you really want to find a way to get back together with your ex and making it last this time, your best bet is to face up to the problems and find ways to fix them. Accept the mistakes you've made and learn to improve on the person you are. Once you show this side to your ex they will probably be calling you and begging you to get back together. Cool huh?<br /><br /><a href="http://2f730grf2ffoezdepaohhfrx4x.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Learn More Click Here!</a>Fashion trendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01127045935605240304noreply@blogger.com0