Saturday, March 12, 2011

How To Win Love Back For Real


How To Win Love Back For Real

It seems like human nature to get into a rut in our relationships. When this happens we start to take our partner for granted. It's not even that we expect them to do certain things or behave a certain way; it's not a conscious thought at all. If you are on the verge of a break up, or have recently gone through one, then you know how true this is. The good news is that you can turn things around if you are willing to do whatever it takes to be happy together.

As you may have already guessed, the first step to winning back love is to stop taking it for granted. You need to appreciate your partner, who they are, what they mean to you, and also what the relationship means you. Once you start looking at things this way, you will regain a healthy perspective. You will start to notice those things about your partner that made you fall in love with them in the first place.

One of the rules of life is that you can only change yourself. So, while you are seeing your relationship in a new light, your partner may not. Remember, you can't force them to change. However, you can definitely have a big influence on their behavior. How so? Through your own actions. The last thing you want to do is get all preachy, as this will only push them further away. Instead, start acting like you're not taking them for granted.

Now, they may not even notice that you have changed, at least not in a way that they're aware of. But stick with it, and you can be sure they will start to change themselves. Don't point it out, but encourage it indirectly by rewarding it. This may seem like manipulation, and it may be, but it's being done for the right reasons. After all, if you want to win love back, and they don't want to love you, then they won't. So, don't think of it as manipulation, but rather as a way to give the two of you a chance to fall back in love without having to resort to the emotional equivalent of brute force.

It is absolutely vital that you're motivations are good, otherwise everything will backfire. If you try to win back love for the wrong reasons, and you're successful, then things will turn sour. It will be virtually guaranteed that the relationship will come to an end. However, if you do it for the right reasons, and it works, then the two of you could be happy for many, many years to come. Either way, it won't always be easy, but if you really love each other, then it will be worthwhile.

All of this may sound great, but there is a catch. You actually have to follow through on it. You need to take the first step. It doesn't matter what that first step is, what matters is that you do something, anything, to win love back. You'll be glad you did.

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1 Response to "How To Win Love Back For Real"
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